Life is Hard.

Saying the Right Words Shouldn't Be.

Dark humor, honest words, and just the right amount of inappropriate—for grief, menopause, breakups, and everything in between.

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Grief & Joy

Our mission is rooted in real life experience—and in the healing power of humor.

If you’ve ever thought… “There has to be a better way to say this.”

  • You’ve stared at a card aisle and thought, nope
  • You want to say something real—but not awkward
  • You use humor to survive hard things
  • You’ve wondered, “Is it too soon to laugh?”

Why Grief & Joy Exists

Because life doesn’t stay in one lane.

One minute you’re grieving. The next you’re laughing at something wildly inappropriate.

We create cards and products for the moments that don’t fit inside traditional words—the messy, complicated, very human ones.

If you’ve ever not known what to say…
you’re our kind of person.

Testimonials

★★★★★

I am following Grief & Joy and I want to thank you for it. Obviously, I am not the intended audience but I love it! You can also thank your English teachers because you are a good writer! And I would like to stay in your barn someday!

Matt W.
Rosemount, MN
★★★★★

Witty and heartfelt. Grief and Joy’s products are a perfect way to reach out when life gets hard. When you can’t find the perfect words, send something that will make them smile!

Elizabeth W.
Dubuque, IA
★★★★★

Grief and Joy is an uplifting site. Mindy’s loss has turned into a gift to the world through her uplifting messages, reminders that we all experience hard moments in life and that everyday we should take care of ourselves. Thank you Grief and Joy for all your guiding messages and hilarious cards!

Erin L.
Lisbon, IA
★★★★★

The Grief & Joy blog has been something I have enjoyed reading regularly. Mindy’s perspective on her personal loss as well as her happiness through it all has been both touching and made me laugh. ❤️ Her words have helped me see that it really is possible and ok to experience a devastating loss and yet still find joy and be happy. I have purchased some of the cards and can’t wait to send them to friends and family. These cards convey exactly how we often think but can’t find the card that says it the right way.

Lynne L.
Denver, IA
★★★★★

Add customer reviews and testimonials to showcase your store’s happy Their products are thoughtful with such high quality! Shipping was fast. I highly recommend🥰

Amy O.
Ankeny, IA

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